There’s one question I’ve always struggled with: Where do you see yourself in five years? It’s a common one, often asked in job interviews or casual conversations, but every time I hear it, I find myself feeling stuck. The truth is, I don’t have an answer—at least not one that fits neatly into a five-year plan.

I’ve never been the kind of person who maps out my future in such long-term detail. Instead, I take life one day at a time. My idea of planning is much shorter—where will I be in a month? What do I need to focus on this week? Life is unpredictable, and while I have hopes and dreams, I’ve learned that trying to control every aspect of the future can sometimes do more harm than good.

Of course, in five years, I hope to be happy and healthy. That’s really the most important thing, isn’t it? But beyond that, who knows? Life has a way of surprising us, throwing challenges and opportunities our way when we least expect them. Sometimes, what we imagine for ourselves isn’t what’s truly best for us, and being open to change can lead to the most fulfilling experiences.

So, the next time someone asks me where I see myself in five years, maybe I’ll just say this: I see myself living in the moment, making the most of each day, and embracing whatever comes my way. Because, in the end, that’s the only plan that truly matters.

Daily writing prompt

What is one question you hate to be asked? Explain.

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