Checking In: The Importance of Staying Connected with Mom

As I sit down to write this, my mind is already wandering to the upcoming call I’ll be making to my mum. It’s become a cherished routine, these calls. They aren’t just about catching up; they’re a way to ensure she’s doing alright, especially since she’s been living on her own since Dad passed away. Her health hasn’t been at its best, which makes these conversations all the more crucial.

The New Normal: Adjusting to Life Without Dad

When Dad passed away, it was like the ground shifted beneath our feet. For Mum, the change was even more profound. They had been each other’s companions for decades, navigating life’s ups and downs together. Now, she’s facing those challenges alone.

Living alone has been an adjustment for her. There are days when she seems to manage well, and others when the solitude feels heavier. It’s during these times that our conversations become a lifeline, not just for her, but for me too.

Health Concerns: A Continuous Worry

Mum’s health has been a bit of a rollercoaster lately. She’s always been a pillar of strength, but even the strongest among us need care and attention. She’s had a few health scares that have kept me on edge, constantly worrying about her well-being. Regular check-ins have become my way of staying close, of offering support even from afar.

The Power of Connection

Each call starts with the basics – how she’s feeling, if she’s eating well, how her appointments with the doctor are going. But we quickly move on to lighter topics, sharing memories, laughing about old jokes, and discussing the latest family news. These conversations are a balm for both our souls, reminding us that while distance separates us physically, we are always connected at heart.

Little Acts of Love

I’ve learned that it’s the little things that matter most. Sometimes I’ll surprise her with a delivery of her favorite flowers, or a new book I think she’ll enjoy. Other times, I’ll help her troubleshoot technology issues, patiently guiding her through the steps over the phone. These small acts of love and care are my way of being there for her, despite the miles between us.

Making Time for What Matters

Life can get incredibly busy, and it’s easy to let days slip by without checking in. But I’ve come to realize that these calls are non-negotiable. They’re a priority, a way to ensure Mum knows she’s not alone, and a way for me to find peace in knowing she’s okay.

Looking Forward

As I prepare for our next conversation, I think about all the things I want to share with her – new projects at work, funny stories from friends, and plans for our next visit. I’m eager to hear her voice, to listen to her stories, and to simply be present with her, even if it’s just over the phone.

So, here’s to the calls that keep us connected, to the check-ins that provide comfort, and to the bond that remains unbreakable, no matter the distance. Checking on Mum isn’t just a duty; it’s a cherished ritual, a reminder of the enduring power of family and love.