If I had to describe myself to someone, I think I’d start by saying I’m kind. Not the flashy kind of kind, but the quiet kind—the type that checks in on people, remembers the little things, and always offers a smile even when life feels heavy. It’s just who I am. I genuinely care, often more than I probably should, but I wouldn’t change that part of me.

I’m someone who naturally puts others before myself. It’s instinctive—whether it’s making sure someone’s had a good day before talking about my own, or giving my last bit of energy to make someone else’s moment a little brighter. It’s not about being selfless all the time (we all have our moments), but I get joy from knowing I’ve helped someone feel heard, seen, or supported.

I’d also say I’ve got a good sense of humour. Life’s too short to take everything seriously, and sometimes laughter is the best way to get through the tricky days. I love being silly, cracking jokes, or just having a giggle over something ridiculous. There’s something healing about finding the light in everyday moments, even if it’s just laughing at myself now and then.

Patience is another big part of who I am. Whether it’s waiting for someone to open up, listening without jumping in, or just taking a deep breath when things don’t go to plan—I’ve learned that being calm and steady often helps others feel the same. And when you’re a good listener (which I pride myself on being), patience naturally follows. People often come to me just to talk, to vent, or to find some comfort—and I never take that trust for granted.

I don’t have everything figured out, and that’s okay. I’m human. But if you ever need someone who’ll listen without judgment, who’ll make you laugh, and who’ll put your heart first—you’ve found her.


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