I’ve been incredibly lucky in life. I don’t say that lightly—I truly mean it. There have been countless moments where my family has shown me love, support, and kindness in ways that many only dream of. From surprise trips and birthdays made extra special to those quiet, everyday moments that showed me I was loved and appreciated, I’ve always felt cared for.

But if I had to choose the most positive and impactful thing my family has ever done for me, it wouldn’t be a gift or a gesture. It would be their unwavering presence.

When I was diagnosed with epilepsy at just 10 years old, my world changed. How does a child deal with that? I was shy, unsure of myself, and I carried a fear of being a burden to others. I didn’t want to speak about how I was feeling—sometimes it felt like the words just wouldn’t come out, no matter how badly I wanted to say them.

But my mum… she never gave up on me. She was my rock. Always there, gently encouraging me, helping me break down those walls I’d built around myself. Even when I resisted, even when I went quiet, she stood by me. We got through it together. Her voice, her calm, her strength—it helped me believe that everything would be okay. That I wasn’t alone. The biggest gift she gave me? Confidence. The courage to speak out, and eventually, never shut up (in the best possible way!).

My dad, on the other hand, wasn’t much of a talker. But his support came through in a different way. He taught me to be strong, to stand tall, and most importantly, to not care what people think. He showed me that being unapologetically myself was more than enough—and that belief has stuck with me ever since.

Together, they shaped who I am today. I look back now and I’m filled with gratitude. For their love, for their patience, and for the strength they passed on to me. Whatever life throws my way, I know I’ve got that foundation—and for that, I’ll always be thankful.