I’ve always believed that everything happens for a reason. Life is full of twists and turns, and while we may not always understand why certain things happen, I believe that each experience—good or bad—shapes who we are. We make our own decisions, and sometimes they’re the right ones, sometimes they’re mistakes. But even those mistakes have a purpose. They teach us, they help us grow, and they make us stronger.

Looking back on my life, I wouldn’t be the person I am today without the experiences I’ve been through. Every challenge, every joy, and even every heartbreak has played a role in shaping me. I truly believe that we are meant to go through certain things, even when they’re painful. It’s not always easy to accept, but in the end, we learn from it.

One of the greatest examples of fate or destiny in my life is my relationship with my husband. We met through online dating—something I never would have expected to lead to such a deep and lasting connection. But here we are, 13 years later, still going strong. I believe we were meant to find each other. There were so many little things that had to happen for us to meet at just the right time, and I truly believe that fate brought us together.

On the other hand, loss is one of the hardest parts of life to understand. When my dad passed, it was devastating. Whether we wanted it or not, it was his time to go. As much as we wish we could hold on to our loved ones forever, I believe there is a greater plan at work—one we may never fully comprehend.

So, do I believe in fate or destiny? Absolutely. I believe that certain things are meant to happen, and they happen for a reason. But I also believe that we have the power to make choices along the way, and those choices shape our journey. Life is a mix of destiny and decision-making, and every experience—good or bad—leads us exactly where we’re meant to be.

Daily writing prompt

Do you believe in fate/destiny?

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