This year, I’ve decided to take a new approach to life by starting a diary and writing down a list of things I’d like to achieve. It’s about making changes that will hopefully improve my well-being and help me grow as a person. Some of these goals won’t be easy to stick to, but I’m determined to give it my best effort. Here are the five things I’ve chosen to focus on:

1. Look After Myself More

Taking care of myself physically, mentally, and emotionally is at the top of my list. It’s so easy to put others first, but I’ve realized that self-care isn’t selfish—it’s necessary. Whether it’s eating healthier, getting enough rest, or taking time to relax, I’m committing to making myself a priority.

2. Be More Selfish

This one feels counterintuitive because I’ve always tried to accommodate others. But sometimes, being selfish means setting boundaries and saying no when I need to. It’s about protecting my time and energy so I can focus on what truly matters to me.

3. Be Honest With Myself and Others

Honesty is something I’ve struggled with—not because I’m untruthful, but because I’ve often avoided difficult conversations or hidden my true feelings to keep the peace. This year, I want to be more open, even when it’s uncomfortable. Being truthful will help me build stronger relationships and feel more authentic.

4. Be More Confident

Confidence doesn’t come naturally to me, but it’s something I’m working on. I want to believe in my abilities and trust that I’m capable of handling whatever comes my way. This means stepping out of my comfort zone and taking risks, even if they scare me.

5. Don’t Be Scared

Fear has held me back in the past, but I’m determined not to let it dictate my choices anymore. Whether it’s fear of failure, rejection, or the unknown, I want to face it head-on and prove to myself that I’m stronger than I think.

The Challenge Ahead

I won’t pretend that these changes will come easily. They go against habits and tendencies I’ve had for years. But that’s why I’m writing them down—to remind myself of what I’m working toward and to hold myself accountable. With patience and perseverance, I believe I can make these goals a reality.

Have you set any goals for yourself this year? I’d love to hear about them and how you plan to tackle the challenges ahead!